Vive La Romance
We at Bedroom Antics proudly confess to being romantics at heart, in love with love and the small, thoughtful details that set great romances apart. Modern manners can learn a thing or two from the tradition of chivalry and its timeless values of honour, courage and consideration. Historically, chivalry stems from medieval times when knights bestowed wonderful, gentle and generous gestures on the noble women they served with the purest of intentions.
Centuries later, the selflessness of those acts inspires Hollywood blockbusters. Yet we shouldn’t have to go to the movies to feel treasured and swept off our feet when, with a few simple steps, we can create old fashioned romance in our own lives. Focus on small details, one day at a time, whether it’s being considerate, using your manners, or doing something that you wouldn’t usually do that shows you care. Then stop and cherish those intimate moments of surprise, appreciation and togetherness. Small, thoughtful gestures ‘of chivalry’ can truly transform our busy, modern lives. Vive la romance!
How to add chivalrous flair to your romance – men and women take note:
- Be considerate
- Use your manners
- Show you care (through an occasional small romantic gesture)
- Stand up for your partner
- Be gracious (in victory and defeat)